FAQs

Whether you want the same guardian for your children’s person and estate. You should consider who would be able and willing to care for your children and who would responsibly manage their finances.

How you’d like any family bond to be maintained. You should consider whether you want your children to stay in the same household (if you have more than one minor child), and whether you’d prefer your children to maintain relationships with other family members. If that’s the case, you may want to specify guardians who are capable of providing those conditions.

How you’d like any family bond to be maintained. You should consider whether you want your children to stay in the same household (if you have more than one minor child), and whether you’d prefer your children to maintain relationships with other family members. If that’s the case, you may want to specify guardians who are capable of providing those conditions.

Location of guardian. Where does your nominated guardian live and would he/she be willing to relocate? Or conversely, would you be okay with your children moving to another city or state, or switching schools? If it’s important to you that your children stay in the family home (or hometown), you may want to consider naming a guardian who is local.

Personal and religious values. You should also consider the personal values of your nominated guardian. Do you want someone who shares similar parenting, personal, and/or religious values? If being exposed to a particular religion or lifestyle- or not – is of importance, you should choose a guardian who is willing and able to provide that environment.

Your children’s preferences. It’s also important to consider your children’s personal preferences. Are there close family members or friends whom your children might or might not prefer as guardians? Note that a child’s preferences may be strongly considered by the court when appointing a guardian, particularly if he or she is of a certain age (typically 14+).